Paranormal Housewife

This Love Is Supernatural

Ever since I wrote about people who willingly date spirits, I have been overwhelmed with emails and messages asking about people who take it a step further than just dating.

Spectrophilia is defined as the sexual attraction to spirits or the sexual arousal from images depicting spirits. During my research, I found that a lot of women my age blame Devon Sawa playing Casper or Patrick Swayze in Ghost as the reason they have this fetish. My research also led me to realize that it is more often women that claim to be in a sexual relationship with a spirit than men. Whether that has to do with the fact that women are more vocal about this occurring than men or that spirits just prefer to sleep with women more than men, I don’t know.

In fact a few years ago, actress Natasha Blasick came forward and admitted that she had sex with spirit twice. On a British Talk Show, she stated that she could feel their hands pushing against her will but she couldn’t see anyone. She said that at first she was really confused but then decided that she should just relax. After relaxing, she said that it was really pleasurable and that she enjoyed it. She said that it left her feeling warm and fuzzy.

‘It gave me comfort and support and love, and it did answer questions for me that there is something else out there.’ ~Natasha Blasick

Even Ke$ha has come out stating that she used to have sex with a spirit. In an interview with Ryan Seacrest, Ke$ha admitted that her song, Supernatural, was about having sex with spirit. She said that she didn’t know the name of the spirit and that the encounter did scare her but that was part of the fun.

“I lived in this flop house at Rural Canyon, and there was this weird energy that lived there. It used to keep me up at night and wake me up. It progressed into this dark, sexual spirit.”~ Ke$ha

The lyrics to her song are pretty interesting. You can listen to the song here.

Baby when we’re touching in the dark, can you feel it?
I can hear the pounding of my heart, can you feel it?
When you take my body to the stars, I believe it
Boy this love is supernatural, can you feel it?Come, take me by the hand
Wanna cross the line, baby go ahead
‘Till the morning light, watch my silhouette
‘Cause you know tonight, we’re gonna wake the deadGet a little bit wrong
Get a little bit wild
Get a little bit high off of this love tonight
Get a little bit raw
Come a little undone
Get a little bit reckless, I can’t get enoughBaby when we’re touching in the dark, can you feel it?
I can hear the pounding of my heart, can you feel it?
When you take my body to the stars, I believe it
Boy this love is supernatural, can you feel it?Come, take me in the night
I feel it in my blood, want the darker side
Baby when we touch, look me in my eyes
Poison me with love, I’ll bring you back to lifeGet a little bit wrong
Get a little bit wild
Get a little bit high off of this love tonight
Get a little bit raw
Come a little undone
Get a little bit reckless, I can’t get enoughBaby when we’re touching in the dark, can you feel it?
I can hear the pounding of my heart, can you feel it?
When you take my body to the stars, I believe it
Boy this love is supernatural, can you feel it?
(Feel it, feel it, feel it, feel it)Boy this love is
Supernatural
Boy this love is supernatural
(Baby b-baby b-baby b-baby b-baby b-baby b-baby)Baby when were touching in the dark
I can hear the pounding of my heartBaby when we’re touching in the dark, can you feel it?
I can hear the pounding of my heart, can you feel it?
When you take my body to the stars, I believe it
Boy this love is supernatural, can you feel it?            -Supernatural by Ke$ha

I have heard from some people that wrote to me after the ghost dating post about their own experiences with having sex with ghosts. Most of the female’s messages were similar to what Natasha Blasick described. Most said that it started against their will but each time after that, it was a welcomed encounter. Some described scenes that sounded like it was out of 50 Shades Of Grey with them being pressed up against walls or furniture. Other females said that their ghostly lovers were kinder and more loving. Surprisingly, I did have a few guys write to me telling me about their ghostly girlfriends. Again it was mostly just the sensation of the sexual acts and not really being able to see anything. Although one gentleman claimed to see a white mist around his genitals when his ghostly girlfriend would have sex with him. He said the mist was cold when he touched it with his hands but felt warm around his genitals.

I will say though that not all the emails I received were about romantic encounters. I did receive a couple that stated they were raped by a spirit. The spirit was exceptionally rough with them and continued on with the sexual act even after the person told them to stop. These events were obviously very traumatic to them. Most of these experiences though made me wonder if it was truly them having sex with spirits or if it may have been sleep paralysis. Sleep paralysis can cause hallucinations that can cause fear. Either way, it is something that I will be looking more into.

Please let me know if you have experienced anything this.

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